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Use this time to have fun and get to know yourself rather than trying to get serious. If you aren’t prepared to talk to a girl, you are likely going to be in trouble. Women like guys that are ready, up for the challenge. If you choose to stick in the “friend zone,” well you’re on your own.
Don’t be like that. It comes from a place of insecurity and girls don’t find that attractive. Once you feel like you’ve chatted enough, ask them out for a coffee. The more dates you have, the better you’ll get at holding conversations with the opposite sex. Don’t try and be too direct or flirty.
But after doing that for a while, I realized it’s not what I really wanted. It was more about building up my ego and self-esteem by getting lots of validation from women.
6. Tell Her She Looks Pretty
Girls want to feel appreciated and valued and if they think they are a short term sex object, you will never score. If you are slider by trade that approaches multiple women at a time, you’re on your own. Lie in your bed and be happy. It’s not that you have to dress or act like a certain guy, that’s just too hard.
- Cut the mixed signals and be honest with yourself.
- A common mistake that guys make when trying to get themselves a girlfriend is that they meet a woman, feel sexually attracted to her and immediately begin to want to have her as a girlfriend (i.e. he is smitten, falls in love at first sight).
- It’s no longer just you.
I’m saying “man” for a reason. Women tend to keep in close touch with their girlfriends, and men keep hitting on her all time — keeping her social motor going. We men, on the other hand… we often become complacent, and forget to nurture our social life outside the relationship. Even with our best friends.
It is important though, not to blast her with texts and maintain an air of mystery. In a recent deal breakers survey, 44% of women considered being bombarded with messages from a man a deal breaker. Play it a bit cool guys.
But also, you’ll know that there are several good women out there who you could be with. And this will stop you from acting needy or clingy.
Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.
Basically, whenever you see a girl you find attractive, get in the habit of walking towards her and at the very least making a simple approach, like “Do you know where the nearest Starbucks is? ” As it becomes habit, you can be more direct and tell her you think she’s attractive and that’s why you had to say hi.